In life every one faces challenges, challenged are supposed to strengthen you, to give you power and strength not to paralyze your abilities. It actually relys on the subject how he takes the challenge. Being challenged means you must have some kind of ability or talent for which you are challenged to compete. The sense of competency and the feelings of being challenged actually develops self confidence in one self. Accepting challenge or competency develops the personal moral. A wise saying by Martin Luther King
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
So if we accept the challenge with big heart and broad mind we will be able to defeat it but if we stand dispersed looking here and there seeking assistance and help we will never meet the challenge.
No doubt numerous obstacles will come in our way to weaken us but still it is dependent on the subject how he deals with it? Here too the hidden potential force of one comes into action on its full power. Just like when a person is about to fall down or meet any accident the whole body system becomes active at its peak and the blood circulation is circulated even to those places, small vessels or body parts where it is usually not circulated, simliarily obstacle in our way makes our mind, heart and wisdom more powerful and active than before and so the probability of success ratio becomes high.
"The only use of an obstacle is to be overcome. All that an obstacle does with brave men is, not to frighten them, but to challenge them."
And to overcome obstacle there are six important and useful steps.. Each of these steps identifying the challenge or problem, defining the challenge or problem, analyzing the cause of the challenge or problem, exploring solutions to the challenge or problem, deciding to solve the challenge or problem, and taking action to overcome the challenge or problem will require your total involvement. Taking all these six steps gradually will lead us towards the victory. If we take a glimpse at history, we found many great men who had challenged themselves, made some targets and goals to achieve and stood firmly on their words in spite of numberless mountains of difficulties in their way. The history recalls them with gold words and remembers these men only.
But despite all of the advantages of being challenged if a person becomes afraid of the waves of hurdles and obstacles in way of success and takes the step back that means his defeat has actually occurred. To get into the trouble, make ways of victory and meet the challenge is the task of only bravos, only such people deserve to live and only such people are called brave human.
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"All my life, I thought of love as some kind of voluntary enslavement. Well, that's a lie: freedom only exists when love is present. The person who gives him or herself wholly, the person who feels freest, is the person who loves most wholeheartedly."
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