Would you like to have more self confidence

Dr. Purushothaman
October 11, 2013

Why do we have to foster self confidence?

There are people all over the world who require self confidence. They think it difficult to face demanding conditions and take a large amount of stress. They don't even have the confidence of talking to someone whom they are interested in. They find it tough to approach new persons and start a conversation. They are uncomfortable speaking in front of many people at school. These problems usually begin from childhood and are very much influenced by the behavior of members of the family and acquaintances. All these things foil anyone from living life freely and expressing themself properly. A person without self confidence before any competition loses mentally and fails to give the very best performance. Self confidence will not only make him successful but will even make him love himself which is very necessary to live happily.

How to have self confidence?

Here are a handful of ways which will really assist you in having self confidence:

- For building self confidence you need to believe in yourself. If you don't have faith in yourself you can never make others have faith in you.

- There's a voice inside you which will even keep on saying that it is inconceivable for you to achieve certain things. It will even always tell you not to take part in complicated activities but say you made the decision to participate in those things, you're capable of succeeding. You have to lessen the effect of this voice on you. You can apply this by not paying much attention to it. You possibly can believe it to be a funny voice. This will also lower its weight for you.

- While beginning something new you could believe that you have done it a few times and it really is in no way a difficult task for you to do. This will relieve your pressure and help you in making your accomplishment better. For this it is best to try to make this thinking more real by trying to think that.

- Spending time with lots of people whom you consider as confident can help you as you can come to know certain strategies for gaining self confidence.

- Professional help may also be taken should you imagine that the problem is relatively serious and it is always impossible to fix it on your own.

- Once you think every new challenge as a chance which comes to someone once in a lifetime and you will not get it in the foreseeable future, then you will even try for the best outcome with no fearing of failure. Say you made the decision to face a challenge which will provide you with sufficient reward, you can be triumphant and escape your dread of failure, it's possible to imagine the long run when you are sorry for your choice of not taking the challenge. This will even assist in developing your self confidence and provide you with the ability of taking the challenge with no caring for the outcome.

- You ought to try to keep yourself cheerful and do not believe that every time the mistake is made by you. Your relationships is often fragile but the mistake can also be of the other person.

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