How to Deal with Emotional Cheating

Dr. Purushothaman
January 13, 2014


Emotional cheating is very common nowadays. Relationships of any kind and length are broken due to this silent relationship virus. However, there are simple yet effective things to help you handle episodes of emotional infidelity of your partner before it gets worst up to the point of being unable to pick up the pieces anymore. Whenever you sense that you are becoming a victim of emotional affairs, the two things that you have to do are to investigate about it and confront the situation.
Investigate? Why? Is there a need for an investigation if you have this strong hunch that your partner is playing fire behind your back? Yes, hunches are sometimes correct but it does not have enough bearing to confront your partner. If you think that your part is committing emotional cheating then you have to do your own simple research. Who is this person whom he usually hangs out with? You can find this out by making friends with some of his trustworthy buddies in the office or in school. By doing so, you can ask them regarding your partner's whereabouts and the people whom your partner is spending time with without sounding too apprehensive. After that you can also try to increase the number of conversations you have with your partner. Converse and communicate with him. Once you do this, you will be able to sense if he is hiding something from you or if he is losing interest in you. Emotional infidelity can be defeated if you follow this basic step.
At the end of the day, nothing in this world can be fixed without a civil and peaceful conversation. Once you have done you own research and simple investigation if your partner is indeed committing emotional cheating the next thing to do is to confront your partner constructively.

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