Emotional Affair Signs: Trouble In Marriage

Dr. Purushothaman
January 13, 2014


When it comes to relationship, we all heard stories about people wandering around outside their marriages and showing emotional affair signs altogether. What happens is that when this temptation is left to unfold by itself, break ups will likely to be the next picture. While there are difficulties in every relationship, emotional affairs are different and should be dealt right away.
In order to know what are the emotional affair signs is to understand what an emotional affair is. As the name implies, it is an investment of emotion towards another person, outside marriage, where your partner shares his emotions, feelings or just about anything. It doesn't need to involve any physical contact yet as it initially done on the phone or in the Internet.
Underrating the effects of emotional affair signs could become your biggest mistake someday because it's actually eating your marriage gradually. If you're no longer sharing your emotions with your husband as you used to be, there is a greater chance that he will find one outside your marriage. The more time he spends with her, the more your relationship will suffer.
Do you always talk about the bills, problems, weather, the children but hardly sharing your experiences, thoughts and emotions anymore? This is probably the reason why he's spending his emotional energies to another woman where his feelings are much appreciated. Whether it's only happening on the phone or in the Internet, consider it as a full pledge affair because only time can tell before any physical contact will be arranged.
You don't have to wait for that to happen right before your eyes. Save your marriage; nip the bud before it blossoms. In order to do that, you may need an expert advice to identify if your partner is actually "playing with the fire." Loosely said, look for these signs too:
* Your husband suddenly becomes way too interested in his looks. Don't automatically assume that he's doing it to impress you.
* He loses his sexual interest in you he's too preoccupied and distracted with his new found emotional adultery. Get ready with "I'm too tired", and "Too busy" reasons.
* He's no longer interested in discussing some meaningful ideas with you.

* He spends a lot of time in front of the computer, turn into a defensive monster and being too secretive with his online activities.
If two or more of these signs exist, then you're dealing with an emotional affair on the making. To save your marriage, seek help immediately and let the therapist know the emotional affair signs that you've been noticing lately.

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