3 Methods To Preserve A Positive Attitude

Dr. Purushothaman
November 22, 2013

Are you mentally ready to end this year and commence a brand new a single? With the New Year quickly approaching, everyone's thoughts usually are not only filled with vacation celebrations, enjoying a Merry Christmas and gift giving; it's also a time of reflection on the past year and for looking ahead. What did you accomplish, what did you leave undone? What seriously worked and what can and ought to be changed?

It really is also a fantastic time to give severe believed to producing and maintaining a far more positive attitude in all areas of the life so you may not merely like the new year to its fullest but develop the year ahead you would like to have, and not really feel like you're stuck with whatever occurs or be a victim of circumstances.

Do you believe one of one's objectives ought to be to appreciate life to its fullest and to produce the days you need as opposed to simply going via the motions of living each and every day, taking them as they come? After all, are not you the one that is in full control of what takes place to you? If you think big thoughts and act upon them, you will develop massive positive final results. Should you be concerned about all of the points that could go wrong, you will attract points that do go wrong.

The Answer - Use Feng Shui Principles

They're all about taking control of your self and your surroundings so that you could develop the life that you simply want and reside it to its fullest. My rather simplistic definition of Feng Shui will be the use of positive energy to bring about desired or improved results both externally and internally. By way of the use of basic Feng Shui principles you could boost difficult elements of one's life and create a positive attitude to assist eliminate the negative and attract one thing superior. You'll be able to also focus energy on the points you love and do properly so you are able to appreciate them much more do them better.

Principle one - Rid yourself of anything and everything inside your life that doesn't supply you positive energy. In other words, unclutter your surroundings you are your thinking. This includes too several clothes inside your closet that no longer fit or do not appear excellent on you; foods you eat that usually do not nourish your body; stacks of stuff on counters and desks which can be no longer relevant; and thoughts that no longer serve you nicely. It can be remarkable over the years just how numerous issues get collected and stashed into closets, cupboards and drawers that you simply by no means use or don't fit or are out dated. The rule of thumb is "if it does not look great on you, if it can be broken or for those who do not adore it, get rid of it."

Principle two - Be involved in activities and events that energize you due to the fact you really like them. Do activities you support or are involved with throughout the year energize or nurture you in some way or do they just drain your energy? Review each of them cautiously. Are you volunteering your time to energize or nurture other people? Helping others is usually energizing and aid you maintain a positive attitude as long as you do not overdo.

Decide if there are several activities you participate in that drain your energy. Evaluate each and every organization you belong to or just about every event you assistance together with your time and/or revenue. Should you tend not to obtain an proper amount of positive energy in return for the time you invest, you must evaluate whether your participation is still crucial to you at this point in time as it utilized to be.

Make a list of all of one's events, activities and organization you participate in throughout the year. Utilizing a scale of a single to ten with one  becoming probably the most vital and ten becoming the least essential, give every single of one's activities an amount. If the amount is greater than four, think about eliminating it from your permanent activities' list. Focus your energy on those points you seriously really like to and they'll deliver you positive energy and help you sustain your positive attitude.

Principle three - Unclutter your thinking. Everybody is continually talking to themselves. The question is, "what are you frequently saying to yourself". Are you telling yourself that you are a great individual and can do something you put your mind to? Or, are you continually putting yourself down, sabotaging yourself and making negative energy inside?

It's important to observe cautiously what you might be telling yourself mainly because it is possible to tell yourself you may well catch a cold, and also you will; or you may possibly fail an exam, and you will; or you might be the subsequent a single to lose your job, and you will. On the other hand, you may make an effort to build your self up by regularly utilizing encouraging and good results developing thoughts. It really is extremely uncomplicated to place yourself down and deplete your very much necessary energy within. Be determined to lift your self up so you build very good energy inside. Cease that constant loop of cants, don'ts, wonts, will need to haves, would haves and only ifs. They help you generate only negative energy and thoughts, which creates negative results.

As you reflect on the past year, be conscious of the fact which you definitely do have to get rid of the old negative thinking and issues before you may ring inside the new. You can not move on to a brand new calendar year devoid of leaving the old behind.

Similarly, you have to remove old thinking, non-relevant activities and "get rid of stuff" to move on to new items in your life. As a way to live life to its fullest, you have to take control of self and sustain a positive attitude to create it come about. Use Feng Shui principles and newly created positive energy to lift your spirits and nurture your mind so it is possible to maintain a positive attitude to attract the future you need.

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