Dr. Purushothaman

January 22, 2014

Relationship Transformation
You are in a loving, committed relationship and you are looking for more passion and a deeper love with your partner.
Your primary focus needs to be getting tools and strategies that really work to create an unshakable love and an unleashed passion that lasts a lifetime!

Who you are
You are in a committed relationship and you love your partner. You are driven. You actively seek opportunities for growth and choose to model the best. You are successful in many areas of your life. You hold yourself to a high standard.
You absolutely want to improve your relationship and take it to the next level, but you are not sure how. You have a strong desire to create a deeper love with your partner and ignite a burning passion beyond your wildest dreams.
If you are an entrepreneur, you recognize that your business is having an impact on your intimate relationship and, your intimate relationship is impacting your business! At times, the time and resources you put into your business have become a point of contention in your relationship. You want the best for both your relationship and your business. You would love for your spouse to be happy, loving and passionate while growing your business which brings you fulfillment. You know, deep down, that if your spouse 100% supported your big vision for your business, it would have no limits!!
If you are married to an entrepreneur, you are tired of competing with their business. You often struggle with feeling like you are second to their business, and you long to feel that you are number one in your spouses world. You want to be more encouraging but you want your partner to be there for you too.
You and your spouse both yearn for the passion you had back when you were first dating and you are ready to take your relationship to a deeper level, so that you are completely aligned and united as a team!
If given proven tools and strategies that work, you would absolutely do what it takes to divorce-proof your marriage and experience all the passion you desire! Your dream for your marriage is to create magnificence, be a role model to others and keep taking it deeper and higher for the rest of your lives together!
What your issues tend to be
You really love your partner and are confident that they are the one for you. You so badly want to experience the passion and excitement you had when you were first dating. However, you aren't experiencing the passion you desire right now. Perhaps the little (and not so little) hurt feelings, disagreements or upsets seem to come up way too often.
You would love to easily and effortlessly make your partner delight with joy and thrill in excitement but you are not sure how to do that or where to start. Even if you did know, you are not sure where you had find the time or energy each day.
You would love to enjoy a vibrant and passionate sex life with your partner, in which you are both crazy for each other, can't get enough of each other and have intimacy on a daily basis. But right now, the kids, the house and the business zap you of all your time and energy. Sex is not so frequent and not exactly as exciting as hanging from the chandelier (Lets face it, even if you were hanging up there, you had only notice that it needs to be cleaned and then feel bad about that, too!).
The demands of entrepreneurship are often an area of contention in your relationship. At times, you hold back or play smaller than you would like to so as not to upset your spouse who feels like they are sometimes competing with your business for your attention. You feel pulled in both directions, guilty one way or the other, and it seems that sometimes you just can't win.
Because we are being really honest here, you are in a loving relationship, but its not quite so unshakable that there would NEVER be a doubt in your mind. Vibrant passion and intimacy are not a part of your daily life together.
What you need most right now
What you need most right now is a solution that allows you and your partner to put each other FIRST, so each of you knows, without a doubt, that you are #1 in your spouses world bar none.
Seeing. Since you can't hit a target you can't see the first step you must take is to create a crystal clear, very specific vision of what your ultimate relationship looks like. Relationships are not one-size-fits-all. You must very clearly know what your outcome is and begin with the end in mind.
Shifting. Once you have your vision, the next step is to create an opening for change. A shift in perspective is the opening that allows you to implement the tools and strategies to come. One thing I know for sure, if you stay stuck in your current perspective, nothing can transform for you! The moment you begin to see your relationship and your partner, from a different perspective can often be the moment of most profound transformation in an intimate relationship even before you get to using the tools and strategies!
Strategies. After you experience a shift in your perspective, you need the best of the best highly specialized, strategic tools and strategies that really work to transform your relationship! There are two categories of tools and strategies that you need to create an unshakable love and an unleashed passion with your partner. The first category is focused on the strategies and tools for transforming yourself into the best partner you can be. Breaking old patterns, shedding old baggage and up-leveling yourself to one of the greatest lovers that exist on the planet!
The second category is focused on the strategies and tools to use with your partner.
For men, these strategies help a you appreciate the zest, spice and ever changing nature of your woman, easily handle the swirl of femininity that you may otherwise be unprepared to manage and truly delight in the differences that she brings into your world. As a result, you will appreciate the things that used to drive you crazy. Then it becomes effortless to be the calm in her storm and ultimately unleash her passion and appreciation for you!
For women, these strategies help you appreciate the way men think, feel and act. You will be able to clearly see all the gifts that your man provides for you by being exactly who he is. This helps you engage with him in a way that brings out his best and most authentic self so that you can delight in your unleashed hero, whose purpose in life is to serve and make you happy!
Synergy. The next step is to truly align as a team. This means that you and your partner are united and indivisible by anyone or anything. This can be an area of struggle for many couples who have kids, parents, work and other family members who play a huge role in their life and impact their intimate relationship on a regular basis.
When you create a rock solid synergy with your spouse, you will feel supported, empowered, cherished and confident like never before! Its hard to explain the feeling of walking through your day knowing, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that YOU are the #1 most important thing in your partners world!
Start Anew. At this point, your next step is to wipe the slate clean, release and start anew with your partner. In order to accomplish this step, you must embrace forgiveness (which is probably not what you think it is), and use the tools and strategies that really work to forgive, forget and move past any past hurts, upsets or betrayals. This can sometimes be the most difficult area for people to navigate. But there are tools and strategies, that are not what most people expect, that give you the freedom to move forward as your most authentic self, to begin anew.
Once you complete this step, it is time for you and your spouse to recommit and declare anew to each other to draw the line in the sand and move forward together from here!! This solidifies your unshakable love!!!!
Sparks. While having things in common creates love, its the differences that create PASSION! At the very heart of the differences that create passion is polarity the charge between the masculine and the feminine energies! In todays society, many people are disconnected from their masculine or feminine energy. The next step you need is to reignite the spark of polarity by strengthening his masculine presence and cultivating her feminine radiance! When you feel your re-alignment with the masculine or feminine energy that is deep within your core, you will feel ALIVE again replenished, whole and at peace! This begins the process of unleashing your passion for each other.
S-Flirt. Hah that is the perfect energy to bring right now. The next step is for you to bring FUN, romance, flirting and playfulness back into your relationship. Although dating is one of the first things to go out the window when kids, business, the house and everything else takes over our lives, you must bring this back into your relationship to create a magnificent love affair!
With your busy life, you need the shortcuts to finding the time for you to date your spouse and the tricks to being fun, flirtatious and romanticsometimes in as little as 20 seconds! Rekindling this romantic, fun and playful side with your partner today will ensure that you not only have more passion with each other today, but 40 years from now. Just imagine, you will still be enjoying fun, passionate and playful intimacy together!
Sensuality. Sex is not optional in a magnificent love affair. The only difference between your best friend and your intimate partner is intimacy! The next step is for you to create a ravishing and satisfying intimate experience with your partner. Intimacy is not just about the mechanics of being a great lover. The gateway to mind-blowing, ravishing intimacy with your partner is actually vulnerability! What you need most is the ability to create a loving, authentic, passionate and safe space to step right through vulnerability and truly unleash your passion with each other in ways that you never dreamed before!
And then, and only then, will you delight in your unshakable love and unleashed passion and it will last you for your lifetime together!

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1. What you can expect from our proven 8 Step Relationship Transformation System:
2. Get the tools and strategies that really work to transform your relationship
3. Watch the frustrations and upsets disappear, without giving up who you really are and without just keeping quiet about it.
4. See why TRYING doesn't work and why so many things you have tried to improve your relationship didn't work.
5. Get the secrets for unleashing the best in your spouse time and time again
6. Breakthrough your fears, challenges and perceived limitations
7. Become #1 in your spouses world above work, the kids, and everything else
8. Re-align with your feminine or masculine core to feel replenished, rejuvenated, whole and at peace!
9. Experience the pure freedom that comes from stepping into your relationship as your most authentic self and being cherished and appreciated for being exactly that!
10. Move past any disappointments, hurts or betrayals from the past.
11. Reclaim the passion and excitement you once had actually, it will be far better than it was!
12. Bring the fun, playful, romantic energy back into your relationship on a daily basis
13. Create daily intimacy with your spouse and unleash a ravishing, satisfying sex life that goes beyond your wildest dreams!
About the Author
Stacey Martino is the creator of the Relationship Transformation System, and the founder of Love and Passion Coach, where you create an unshakable love and unleashed passion that lasts a lifetime!
Stacey and her husband Paul created a magnificent love affair and together they created Eight Step Relationship Transformation System, The proven system helping couples all over the world to create their own unshakable love and unleashed passion!
She began in personal development over 17 years ago. She is trained and certified as a Marriage Educator, Divorce Preventionist, Strategic Interventionist and Coach by Tony Robbins and Cloe Madanes of the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention.