My relationship has been going nowhere for the past few months. Should I stay or go?
Where a relationship seems to stagnate, there can be various reasons. In this instance both partners have been going through an intense personal transformation that resulted in them questioning everything about themselves, including their relationship.
During this transformation phase, communication between them petered out, because they were each in their own bubble, and each wanted to first deal with the issues at hand before they discuss anything with their partners.
Neither of them wanted to appear weak, and both were waiting for the moment of appearing strong before they would have any intimate conversation again. In any love relationship intimate conversation is required on a regular basis. Where the relationship is strong, both partners are willing to appear naked in all senses, including an emotional honesty.
In this instance, the relationship was strong before they each embarked on their personal journeys, and it will be strong in future again.
At the moment there is an emotional vacuum between them that will be bridged when they have completed their personal journeys. As a result of this vacuum neither of the partners is willing to share their emotions.
However, both of them also understand that the relationship has not come to an end yet. They will reach a critical point where they will have to resolve some conflict and that will get them talking again. They will have much to say to each other, and both will be able to explain their personal journeys.
This discussion will herald the beginning of a new phase in the relationship where there will be a higher level of intimacy and understanding.
When a relationship reaches this point of apparent stagnation, a psychic reading will help to confirm to the partners what they already know intuitively about the relationship. The information they get will take away some of the anxiety that they both feel at the moment, and help them clear up the confusion and lack of communication sooner rather than later.
Unlike this relationship, there are other situations where a relationship comes to a natural end and on the surface it stagnates because neither of the partners is willing to move forward and acknowledge the end of the relationship. They may continue as if everything is well until they meet someone else, and then they have to deal with the excitement of a new relationship and the pain of finally letting go of the old relationship.
Sometimes fear of the unknown makes a stagnant relationship look like the more viable option, until the pain of staying in the relationship becomes more than the pain of moving on and leaving the relationship behind. At this point a psychic reading can give both partners the clarity they require to make decisions about their future.
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