You are frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic touch and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone out there.
Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also reduce the sparkle that once made your relationship
so special in the first place.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ways to
revive that magic touch:
1. SEND THEM A SURPRISE UNIQUE GIFT
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner’s workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. BRING OUT THE KID IN YOU AGAIN
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.
3. FUN WITH WATER
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST
Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. STARE AT THE CLOUDS
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.
6. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.
7. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT
Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.
8. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming
into my life.”
9. FIRE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING
Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to FIRE up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
About the Author
An expert in relationship building with years of experience. From providing sound advice to couples who needs to re-sparkle their love lives to teens looking for direction in life. All with an objective to enhance their lives and to help find the directions they are looking for.
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